We
talked about the -isms each of us experienced in our lives and most of the time it is caused by the people outside of your group. There are situations wherein you also experienced -isms form the same group you belong. This experience is quite painful because you will think that "same feather flock
together". We learned about prejudice, stereotype and discrimination which
is caused by people who believe that they are better than the others. Other
behavioral problems such as pride,
greed, selfishness and enviousness also caused people to treat other
people differently.
I have
notice the most common negative trait of the people in my culture were making
fun of people who speak differently such
as strong accents, wrong grammar and inability to speak up or reason out. I traced back and realized that this hidden
biases came from our experiences we had when we were little. Some challenged
themselves to be better and some just refuse to speak or exclude themselves
from a group. I would like to share with you the experienced I had growing up
in a school environment. To some of you
it may sound unthinkable but to the culture where I belong, this is really
happening.
I
experienced being corrected and laughed at all the time when I speak the
English language because of the accent and my grammar. I would say most of the
people who belong to my culture experienced this because of the way we are
taught in school. Teachers in our school were very particular about the way we
speak, and the way we write especially our spelling and grammar. I remember
when I was little and my teacher called
me to recite a poem and I could not remember anything. Sometimes I could not
pronounce the word right and I was laughed at and was asked to stand for the
whole time. My teacher even told the
whole class:" this happened because she did not study her lessons".
The impact of educators in the lives of the
children is really important. Children absorb stereotypes and attitudes about
other ethnic and cultural groups from their family and larger society. These
biases are easily absorbed because very
young children lack accurate information about the lives of other people
(Derman-Sparks & Edward-Olsen, 2010). To the children who had experienced
the same way I did, I am hoping they will be inspired to do better and be
challenged to reach their full potentials and to those whose spirit was
crushed, I wish them great things in life.
I would say I am fortunate to have great
support of my family and the communities which helped me become the person I am
today. It has affected me in my
professional practice because this experienced made me see the importance of family support and the continuity of this
support in school and communities. I
have seen the importance of my role as an educator and opened my mind to the
reality that -isms is still happening in our society and there is something we
can do to lessen or eliminate it by reaching out and offering my help to the children who uncomfortable and
excluded. Making sure that they are treated fairly and valued so they can feel
good about themselves and appreciate others as well.
Reference:
Derman-Sparks, L., & Olsen
Edwards, J. (2010). Anti-bias education for young children and ourselves.
Washington, D.C.: National Association for the Education of Young Children
(NAEYC).
Anabel:
ReplyDeleteI am flabbergasted by the unprofessional conduct your early childhood educator bestowed upon you. Obviously, she was very ignorant on topics that pertain to culture and language. I am sorry you experienced such horrendous behavior. In my post, I mentioned how racism had altered my emotional and cognitive development. At one point in my life, I began to categorize personages from that distinct racial classification as bigots; however, as time progressed, I realized that this belief was just as horrendous as their behavior, but I never received accurate understanding of race and ethnicity from my educators that I desperately needed. I think providing children with accurate understandings about their world are imperative in order for children to to value differences and similarities in each other. Lovely post!
Anabel,
ReplyDeleteI have come to realize over the years, teachers can be bullies and get away with it because they are the teacher. This is not right and should not be allowed but it is. This is a big world and all peoples are similar and all peoples are different, every individual. That is what makes us so unique. This is an important issue for teachers to realize.
Thank you for your post
Anabel,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about your experience. However, as I was reading it and Barbara's response I think about some of the comments I have also heard educators make that are bullying towards children and do not make the child feel nurtured nor accepted because of differences. I am glad to see that this horrible experience has led to a positive consequence as you place an importance on making sure each child is treated fairly and respected despite differences.
Anabel, I totally agree that "Birds of a feather flock together" When people associate together and are raised to believe certain beliefs about different cultural's. They have a tendency to believe that they are either more superior, or better than others. Hopefully we can change children way of thinking in the early childhood programs by implementing an anti bias education. Great Blog..
ReplyDeleteAnabel,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry that your teacher did not know about anti-bias education, but I am glad that you learned from the experience. Some teachers think that because they are the teacher they know everything or can't learn anything new. Hopefully teachers these days are more knowledgable about prejudice and how it affects children.
Shannon